The 1st Secret - The Power Of Thought.
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we
think about.
Loving thoughts create loving experiences and
loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts
about others and ourselves.
if we want to love someone, we need to consider
their needs and desires.
thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize her when you meet her.
The 2nd Secret - The Power Of Respect.
You
cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them.
The first
person you need to respect is yourself.
To begin
to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?"
To gain
respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself
"What
do I respect about them?"
The 3rd Secret - The Power Of Giving.
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is
give it!
The more love you give, the more you will receive.
To love is to give of yourself freely and
unconditionally.
Practice random acts of kindness.
Before committing to a relationship ask not what
the other person will be able
to give to you, but rather what will you be able to
give them.
The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving
relationship is to always focus
on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The 4th Secret - The Power Of Friendship.
To find a
true love, you must first find a true friend.
Love does
not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking
outward
together in the same direction.
To love
someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they
look
like.
Friendship
is the soil through which love's seeds grow.
If you
want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The 5th Secret - The Power Of Touch.
Touch is one of the most powerful statements of
love, breaking down barriers
and bonding relationships. Touch changes our
physical and emotional states and
makes us more receptive to love.
The 6th Secret - The Power Of Letting Go.
If you
love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it
doesn't,
it never was.
Even in a
loving relationship, people need their own space.
If we
want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past
hurts and
grievances.
Love means
letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
"Today
I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the
beginning
of a new life."
The 7th Secret - The Power Of
Communication.
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly,
life changes.
To love someone is to communicate with them.
Let the people you love know that you love them and
appreciate them.
Never be afraid to say those three magic words:
"I Love You."
Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone.
Always leave someone you love with a loving word it
could be the last time you
see them.
If you were about to die but could make telephone
calls to the people you
loved, who would you call, what would you say and
...why are you waiting?
The 8th Secret - The Power Of Commitment.
If you
want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that
commitment
will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment
is the true test of love.
If you
want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving
relationships.
When you
are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option.
Commitment
distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
The 9th Secret - The Power Of Passion.
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.
Lasting passion does not come through physical
attraction alone; it comes from
deep commitment,enthusia sm, interest and
excitement.
Passion can be recreated by recreating past
experiences when you felt
passionate.
Spontaneity and surprises produce passion.
The essence of love and happiness are the same; all
we need to do is to live
each day with passion.
The 10th Secret - The Power Of Trust.
Trust is
essential in all loving relationships.
Without
it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other
person
feels trapped and emotionally suffocated.
You
cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely.
Act as if
your relationship with the person you love will never end.
One of
the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself,
"Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is
"no",
think
carefully before making a commitment.
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